Asking for help is for the Weak

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You’re Not Meant to Do This Life Alone. It’s Okay to Ask for Help. 



For a long time, I thought I had to carry it all on my own. Like asking for help was a weakness or a sign I wasn’t doing enough, being enough, strong enough. I know now that couldn’t be further from the truth.

We all need support.

Life is overwhelming sometimes. There are so many roles to play—mother, aunt, partner, friend, businesswoman, daughter. And in between, we’re trying to hold ourselves together while also trying to grow, heal, and figure out who we are in the process.

One of the best decisions I ever made was saying yes to support. Saying yes to having a coach. To someone holding space for me, not to fix me, but to walk with me. Someone who could help me clear the noise and listen to the voice inside that already knew the way.

It gave me clarity. It gave me accountability. And most of all—it gave me permission to put myself first.

There’s something powerful about being seen, heard, and supported without judgment. A coach doesn’t have all your answers—but they can help you hear your own. They remind you of your purpose, your worth, and your right to live a life that feels aligned with your soul.

That’s what I now offer in my own spiritual life coaching sessions.

I’ve walked this path. I’ve felt lost, numb, confused, and stretched so thin I didn’t know who I was anymore. And I’ve also come out the other side with more strength, softness, and self-trust than I ever thought possible.

My sessions are grounded, real, and led by heart. I don’t believe in quick fixes or fluffy motivation. I believe in honest connection, deep inner work, and creating space for you to feel—to finally feel—and find your own clarity and power again.

You’re not too much. You’re not too broken. You’re not behind.

You’re just human—and you deserve support.

If this speaks to something in you, even a small whisper, I invite you to book a session with me. Come as you are. We’ll begin there.

I’m here.

https://skylitayurveda.com/spiritual%2Flife-coaching

With love,
Chandravati

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